There’s a book I’ve been reading again. It’s a small book, but it says a lot. As a Man Thinketh by James Allen. The book tells you one thing: your thoughts shape your life. It sounds simple, but it’s not easy. The truth never is. The more I read it, the more I thought about…
You chose a path that requires you to accomplish tasks you really dislike. Is that a problem? How often do you have to do them, and what do you gain from doing them? Finding the balance between effort and reward There is an important balance between effort and reward. If these tasks are taking you…
When you examine yourself and your abilities, do you believe you are capable of doing good things—things that can improve your life or the lives of others? Do you think your efforts can sustain some level of well-being? Recognizing what’s beyond control Most things happening in the world were accomplished beyond your personal effort. A…
Let’s re-frame the question: “What thoughts is your mind using to hold you back?” Often, we create deceptive thoughts that distort our view of ourselves and reality. These thoughts are often fabrications, serving no real positive purpose. Our mind uses them to avoid stepping into the unknown and risking failure. The instinct to avoid failure…
What do you admire about your effort? Let me give you an example: When I created my website, I had to learn and implement everything necessary to make it function. Whether I succeeded depended on one key factor—my effort, or in other words, my dedication to the challenges I faced. Effort and Growth Before I…
The question of whether we get to choose our interests and dreams is more complex than it might seem. The short answer is that you have some control, but not complete autonomy in the matter. Think of it like trying a new food: you can decide to taste it or pass on the opportunity, but…
Do you recognize these thoughts? I don’t know myself. I don’t know what to do with my life. I have no interests. I don’t want anything. I don’t like anything. These thoughts can be useful. I don’t know myself What is it to know one’s self? Is it to have experiences that make you feel…
Choosing a profession is one of the most important decisions you make in life. It impacts your happiness, fulfillment, financial stability, continuing education, and growth. Some people build a clear idea of what they want to do early on. Many others struggle with decision-making and what career choice to make. Many factors influence one’s career choice. These…
As I sat in my comfortable home, accompanied by my parents, pets, and the peaceful surroundings of my neighborhood, I somehow felt, I was getting stuck. Despite my relaxed life, I couldn’t help but compare myself and my life with what it might be. I had a good life, but I couldn’t shake the idea…
How I got into the wrong career. It all started with a blinding lack of knowledge, experience, and ZERO wisdom. Without other reasons, except I have to choose something, and architecture sounds good. I ended up choosing the wrong major and career. Why was it the wrong major? Simply put, it had little to do…